when you get fed up & you refuse to put up with their shit, they blame you for something....anything. They just can't get that you doing what you feel is best for you...which is not them.

Trust your gut instinct. No matter how much you want to believe otherwise

Get out. Or put them out. Do whatever it takes to better yourself.

I'm the girl who is always there for others people when they need a friend. I'm also the girl who faces many issues alone, but will still do anything to see someone smile.

People who criticize and put others down are judgmental and hypocrites. People who try to point out your flaws or weaknesses in a very negative way are insecure and they put others down to lift themselves up and feel better. The things they criticize you for, are really their own weaknesses. They "mirror" or project their own insecurities onto others. Confident people don't go around trying to hurt others. They lift them up.....

Yes! Couldn't have said it better. This is exactly what its like. I hate that you have no problem lying to me. I always tried again, to believe in again, you always DID it again. You finally broke me.... Now we are where we are. I wasn't me anymore, she wasn't good enough!

Respect your family

They burned the bridge, then ask why I don't visit.

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I don't do fakeness. You may not like what I say but you'll always know where you stand with me. If my actions tell you that I like you then I'm not acting. I'm a genuine person. It hasn’t always been that way but people learn and they grow. I don't understand being nice to someone's face and then shit talking them behind their back. I don't understand not being upfront and forthcoming about your feelings of others. I don't understand people's words and actions not matching...

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Change is difficult, but if life is uncomfortable for you, it's worth pushing yourself.


Takers and givers


I think that the most heartbreaking thing I've learned in the past year or two is that things change and people change, and no matter how much you love or care about someone, there more than likely will come a time when the two of you will pretend not to know each other, and you'll pretend that every memory you've ever shared doesn't exist.

This is what Narcissists do.